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xo.Daydreamer ::In-Training::
Number of posts : 105 Age : 30 Location : Most likely on a chair of sorts. Registration date : 2009-03-04
| Subject: "Hello...?" Mon Jun 15, 2009 1:54 am | |
| Alright, so there was this guy in my English and Art classes, and he was a pretty cool guy overall. He was the first person to talk to me in art, he was a really nice, funny guy, and on top of that he was attractive! Seems perfect. So we start talking over Facebook and text, while still talking in class for the first months of the second semester, and I started to like him, and I mean really like him.
Then after a few months of not really talking much outside of school, I was in his community with a bunch of our friends and sent him a text asking if he wanted to hang out. I never got a reply back. I would send him texts every so often asking him simple questions to homework and such, and he has never replied to any of them. I know he gets them because we were in class together one day when he got one of my texts from earlier that morning, and he apologized for not responding to it.
This isn't me being obsessive either, this is me being pissed at people who just do not respond to texts/facebook messages in general. Is it really so difficult to move your fingers across the keypad and type something quickly? Or am I the only person who gets annoyed by this? | |
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Catching Rain ::Champion::
Number of posts : 820 Age : 31 Location : Planet AWESOME! Registration date : 2009-04-20
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jun 15, 2009 1:59 am | |
| Um... I don't have a phone to text with so I wouldn't know what to do. The only thing I can say is approach him in person and ask him what's up. Who knows what's going on in his head, and you'll never know until you ask him. I'm not sure it's worth getting so worked up over (but again, I can't text, so...)
As for facebook, maybe he doesn't get on as much anymore...? | |
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Potgenie ::Ultimate::
Number of posts : 2058 Age : 34 Location : Tropical Goodness. Registration date : 2009-01-04
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jun 15, 2009 4:20 am | |
| Facebook's always like this. Sometimes I forget to reply people via fb too... I guess you could always ask him about the texting thing! | |
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Na-cat ::DigiDestined::
Number of posts : 998 Age : 31 Location : La belle France! Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jun 15, 2009 12:41 pm | |
| I'm so very guilty of not responding to texts/facebook messages. Most of the time it's because I often go several days without turning either of them on. There's also the fact that I don't really enjoy them as methods of communication, I just don't. But leaving someone hanging like that? Not cool, and not something I would do. (Though I have done it before, guy would just not leave me alone. ) | |
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Aana ::Gennai::
Number of posts : 2312 Age : 32 Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:00 pm | |
| I'm a positive fiend for not replying to texts, as Emma can tell you.
But I can tell you this- a lot of my guy friends don't reply to their texts. It's not them being malicious or snide, they just pick up the phone, read the text, say "Oh! I haven't talked to [insert.name.here/] in ages! How nice!"...
...Then they go make pizza and forget. *nods sagely* Happens all the time. | |
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BertieTiger ::DigiDestined::
Number of posts : 562 Age : 32 Location : England Registration date : 2008-09-08
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:21 pm | |
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Goggles ::Ultimate::
Number of posts : 1192 Age : 33 Location : Somewhere out there. Registration date : 2009-06-26
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:37 pm | |
| - SugarSpiral wrote:
- But I can tell you this- a lot of my guy friends don't reply to their texts. It's not them being malicious or snide, they just pick up the phone, read the text, say "Oh! I haven't talked to [insert.name.here/] in ages! How nice!"...
*raises hand - guilty | |
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Aana ::Gennai::
Number of posts : 2312 Age : 32 Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:41 pm | |
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smile-in-ur-sleep ::Champion::
Number of posts : 694 Age : 31 Location : Six feet under the stars. Registration date : 2008-09-06
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 11:45 pm | |
| Sounds like my friend... only he replies to EVERYTHING I send sometimes and other times he'll not answer for a few hours or days...
[yeah. after two years, he still wants me.] | |
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BenignUser ::Champion::
Number of posts : 813 Age : 28 Location : Canada Registration date : 2008-09-24
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 11:52 pm | |
| I few weeks ago I got a text from someone random at like 3 a.m., it basically said something along the lines of:
"Hey babe I know I said I'd come by tonight but it's so late and I'm just way too tired so I'm just gonna go home and sleep. I'll see you in the morning, love ya."
After a minute of blinking and raising my eyebrow, I texted the guy back saying, "Thanks for at least trying to let her know you're not going to make it tonight, but I'd suggest sending the text again to make sure that she actually get's it this time around." | |
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Aana ::Gennai::
Number of posts : 2312 Age : 32 Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 11:55 pm | |
| ...Are you sure it wasn't meant for you? | |
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BenignUser ::Champion::
Number of posts : 813 Age : 28 Location : Canada Registration date : 2008-09-24
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Mon Jul 20, 2009 11:58 pm | |
| I'm quite sure. | |
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Aana ::Gennai::
Number of posts : 2312 Age : 32 Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Tue Jul 21, 2009 12:17 am | |
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BenignUser ::Champion::
Number of posts : 813 Age : 28 Location : Canada Registration date : 2008-09-24
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Tue Jul 21, 2009 12:50 am | |
| All is forgiven, Angel. | |
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D ::Ultimate::
Number of posts : 2387 Age : 34 Location : In Your Heart, and Yours, and Yours! Oh, and Yours too! Registration date : 2009-01-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Tue Jul 21, 2009 1:03 am | |
| *squeal*Pet names!!! Does my Onii-chan have a girlfriend!? *huggles* I'm happy for ya'll. I just ask that you keep the flirting to a minimum. My stomach can only take so much. This could totally throw off my Bromance fic! | |
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Aana ::Gennai::
Number of posts : 2312 Age : 32 Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Tue Jul 21, 2009 1:15 am | |
| Imouto, don't get your hopes up. (You of all people know the status of my love life!!)
Darko and I have already discovered that petnames are not for us. It's a bit creepy. | |
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Na-cat ::DigiDestined::
Number of posts : 998 Age : 31 Location : La belle France! Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Wed Jul 22, 2009 12:44 pm | |
| Creepy, but hilariously creepy. | |
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Goggles ::Ultimate::
Number of posts : 1192 Age : 33 Location : Somewhere out there. Registration date : 2009-06-26
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Wed Jul 22, 2009 2:10 pm | |
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Aana ::Gennai::
Number of posts : 2312 Age : 32 Registration date : 2008-09-05
| Subject: Re: "Hello...?" Sun Jun 06, 2010 10:20 pm | |
| ...Out of curiosity Lex, did you ever get an answer outta Art/English guy ? | |
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